"Before you say yes, get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting, see him sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if he does, get him drunk - you’ll learn more about his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts you in front of them. You can’t change people, baby girl. If they are made one way, it doesn’t just wear off. If you hate how he acts when he’s out of it now, you’re going to hate it much worse eight years down the road. You might love him to bits but it doesn’t change that some people just don’t fit."
- inkskinned, “My father’s recipe for the man I should marry” (via bl-ossomed)
"The Buddhists say if you meet somebody and your heart pounds, your hands shake, your knees go weak, that’s not the one. When you meet your ‘soul mate’ you’ll feel calm. No anxiety, no agitation."
- Monica Drake - Clown Girl (via soulsscrawl)
"I think it’s about taking pride in the fact that you know who you are and it honestly doesn’t matter if someone else doesn’t understand you."
- Taylor Swift talking about Shake It Off (Radio 1 August 19th 2014)